Philanthropy: Be aware about the opportunist art of deception:

Why faces don’t always tell the truth about feelings?Becoming a Socialite,a philanthropist in this contemporary world of interests and benefits can often be misleading. Sometimes we participate in meetings, have interactions,claims,counter claim, in a scenario an atmosphere which may be far from actual ground reality.we percive things or look (stare) at a picture or portrait they draw for us,can be convinving ,marking our minds and can't understand truth.Are we conceptually blind or victim of mirage what we're seeing and concluding . Is our world the best optical illusion or is it just our minds playing tricks on us? How,people with the best intentions get in everyone’s way?A review on subject (tazkiya naffas.- ) that something can be very different from how it seems or appears to be. We get our biggest payoff from face and voice cues when dealing with obscured or manipulated lies about emotions at that moment. We add cues from gestures-looks - A false, fraudulent, misleading, haughtiness or deceptive statement, claim, or image includes a statement or claim that does any of the following:a misrepresentation or manipulation of fact,is likely to mislead or deceive because of a failure to disclose material facts intended or is likely to create false or unjustified expectations of favorable results,from including the use of any photograph or other image that does not accurately depict the results of the procedure being advertised or that has been altered in any manner from the image of the actual subject depicted in the photograph or image even any statement, endorsement, or testimonial that is likely to mislead or deceive because of a failure to disclose material factsto derive benefit from other person,party,group. Everyone who subscribes to Philanthropy( sadaqqa or huqqoq al ibaad) or makes a social investment wants to feel like they are doing good. After all, that’s the basis of philanthropy. We want to help others, make lasting positive change in them and society at large ,and desire to leave the world with rewards which will be our advocacy for our shortcomings; disobedience's advocates--- because of our contributions".And [for] every person We have imposed his fate upon his neck,1 and We will produce for him on the Day of Resurrection a record."Read your ledger; this day you are sufficient to take your own account...Whoever attains to Hidayet, for his own soul (as he has cleansed his soul) does he attain to Hidayet. Then whoever is in Misguidance, he remains in Misguidance, as one whose responsibility is upon himself. The bearer of a burden (sin) cannot bear the burden (sin) of another. And We never tormented (punished) until We sent a Messenge.Surah Al-Isra(13-15 Mant socialites live different types of lives, revealed or concealed , a glamourous lifestyle but that doesn’t mean they don’t work hard for them. Though some socialites are born into wealth and status, others have worked their way up the social ladder through their impeccable fashion taste, manners, and charisma--and that means you can do it, too! If you’re ready to overhaul your wardrobe, become social media royalty, and become a fixture on the charity circuit, then you’re on your way to being the next star of the social scene The arrival of new sources of funding is always welcome news to anyone concerned with the application of private wealth to the benefit of society. The influx of vast new resources into the non-profit sector --sadly many involved couldn't build strong relationships with nonprofits and their community constituents, how they become more transparent, and how they can provide the kinds of support that have shown to benefit nonprofits the most.In their rush to embrace novel and exciting approaches, some new donors forget that philanthropy is about much more than strategies of social problem-solving or the ‘effective investment’ of man.,material,motivation.Decoding emotions is also at the core of a challenging controversial training programme-Facial expressions are extremely difficult to interpret, even for people,Some emotions, such as shame or guilt, do not have obvious readouts.he obvious problem with that assumption is that people can fake emotions, and can experience feelings without moving their faces.there can be considerable variation in the ‘gold standard’ expressions expected for each emotion.Trying to assess internal mental states from external markers is like trying to measure mass in metres.Settling the emotional-expressions and inner intentions debate will require different kinds of experience & investigation.Have your own methods of testing periodically-“Observe, observe, observe.” Watch carefully(actual life and revealed life) what people actually do with their faces and their bodies in real life — not just in the public . Then use provoking experiences to record and analyse real-world footage.Sometimes we stare at a picture and can't understand what we're seeing. Is our world the best optical illusion or is it just our looking at Deceptive faces,claims ,Photos That Prove Our Eyes Can’t Be Trusted. At the heart of all this work is humility and taqwa,. for everyone who exercises the power of philanthropic resources(wealth). need to understood that antidotes to the dangers of hubris are to be found in the qualities of humility, responsiveness and listening – and our chequered history teaches us that these, rather than managerial efficiency and productivity, are the qualities that modern philanthropists would do well to cultivate. But too often, philanthropists from our land delude themselves about their own effectiveness because they don’t see the myriad ways that they are adding needless complexity and complication to their work. They are blind to their own behaviors, egos, nepotism,policies and practices that can cause more harm than good. And they frequently get in their own way without realizing it. I call this delusional altruism.Take care.